It's the little things that mean the most.....

When I pray for these children my prayer is for them to have kind, loving hearts....this is our life...our journey...our Hardy Hearts....

Thursday, July 4, 2013

A post Rip Tide kind of day

After the events of yesterday...we snuggled in bed longer..happy to "stay put" for a little bit...and didn't feel so rushed to go...go...go....
We spent the day on the beach.....together....
We had ice cream before dinner...because we could.....

and then had a nice dinner....a fish fry at Tommy's condo

The sunset was a beautiful one tonight.....

so we headed down t the beach to enjoy it's magic.....
just the four of us.....
Four is fun....but tonight it seemed so lonely.....we were missing Riggs and Jeremy....
But we sent them love in our hearts......and made the best of it!

We had an amazing time......
the beauty of my life set on the back drop of the beach just gets me every time....
I always feel so lucky......

so blessed.....

so happy.......

like.... feel it bubbling in your heart......happy!





Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Not just another day at the beach.....

Day two of the beach seemed like it a regular day at the beach...blue skies....beautiful sand...happy kids


and an ocean and that called out......come play



and so we did...in a big...wonderful way.....jumping in the waves.....

searching for shells....

and lots of boogie board time....and giggles by the buckets full!

Landon  and Nana stood by the shore while the kids played and I was in a beach chair...when a lady started screaming at Landon to help her....her kids couldn't swim...and they were far out.....
She saw Landon from a distance and thought this big guy can help me...but Landon is autistic and her panicked screamed did not register with him. I jumped up and told her her was autistic and could not help her....and I connected with her eyes and saw her desperation.
I got my littles out of the water and on beach with mom....
They watched as Nana and I went into the water....as fast as we could...trying to get to four little kids who were so far away they were little more than dots on the horizon. I didn't think I just went. We got out about half way to them...but still not close enough to call to them. The ocean floor left me and the water was over my heard. I as pulled into a riptide and the waves crashed over me. My lungs ached with the sting of salt water. I was scared and the realization came that I needed a life preserver or a floating device of some sort in order to do this....I wasn't strong enough....I wasn't enough to do this as much as I wanted to. I had to get back to the beach and reset. But in a rip tide each wave that crashes over you...does not take you back in...it only pulls you deeper and deeper ...farther and farther...and there was a moment where I was tired and it seemed hopeless. In trying to save these kids....I would have to save myself first. I called to Nana that we had to go back in.....and as I fought to get back in little by little....I prayed in a big way. It was a moment of clarity for me as I fought to get back to my own littles.
 I was so emotional and no pictures were taken of what happened next...but this is how it unfolded.
Nana and I finally got back to the beach....and from no where came this huge....black....chiseled...man. He looked like he could be cast as an African God in a movie....and was calm amidst the panic and screams....and he could swim fast and strong. He was able to save the kids one by one. It was amazing. You can barely see him in the back of this picture.  We never got his name....we just called him "the angel." And he left as the paramedics gave the moma oxygen and she cried...he just walked away.
 A lady came and everyone touched each other and she prayed over the children and the mom and gave thanks for their presence and for their life. We stood on a cluster on the beach with strangers who in that moment were family. We are all one family on this Earth. Family is truly who loves you and who will be there for you....blood has nothing to do with it. Who loves you? Today I was loved by a giant black man...today he was family and I will carry him in my heart forever.

The after noon was spent with a little more time on the beach than in the ocean....but with more hugs and kisses than I can count......

We finished the night crabbing.....


and caught 30! Just when we were done...our bucket can't hold another..... it seemed like there was always one more to get....just like life.....there is always room in your life and in your heart for more goodness....
I fell asleep that night thankful.....for friends....for family....for my time on this Earth and the gift every day is....

Monday, July 1, 2013

Baby get your Shine on!

We love the band Florida Georgia line so we were rocking them when he hit the Florida/ Georgia line....
We were listening to...this amazing song to be precise...and we were excited to be heading to the ocean!
After 12 hours on the road we arrived to Cape San Blas, Florida!
Day was was just spent getting acquainted with this new place....and this new beach!

We loved sharing this time with Maddie Ann...although the sound of the ocean seems to put her right to sleep!
Rollins was in heaven hermit crab hunting.......


The big news of day one is that Lila Ray finally got brave enough to put her face in the water!


Way to Go, Lou-Lou!!!!

That night...with sun kissed cheeks...we had dinner in and just enjoy being together...although we sure missed Riggs and Daddy......
with Riggs not here the dynamic is so different....Rollins is the oldest and I think he likes it a little bit!
He is the one pushing the sisters on the swings...and deciding what games to play....

He is the sweetest boy.....and a master frog catcher too....
and he is in LOVE with Maddie.....I mean...head over heels....it's so sweet....

we all are....how could you not be!?


It was a great first day and we loved "Getting our Shine on" for sure!